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Here at the Unmitigated Word, I’ve blogged about some pretty weird things. As such, it takes some particulary bizarre news to move the needle on my shock-o-meter. Quite frankly, people – as nuts as they can be - simply don’t surprise me anymore. But I don’t think I’ve ever read a story as ackward as what I’m about to post. Here’s the lowdown.

The story starts with a teacher’s aid in North Carolina. She’s been accused of having sex with a minor. No big deal, right? This level of ridiculousness is all too commonplace with educators these days (no offense to any teachers who still like to date within your own age group). The story gets a little more ackward because the boy in question turned out to be the lady’s own grandson. I know, right? Bizarre, for sure. But in certain parts of the world – and indeed this country – even this is not too uncommon.

Where this story gets jaw-droppingly weird is with what was allegedly uncovered during the police investigation. Turns out, they have phone records suggesting the woman - Toni Stowers-Moore – may have had sex with her grandson to “remove a sexual demon” he had. I’m not making this up:

Toni Stowers-Moore, 53, is charged with statutory rape/sex offense in which the defendant is six years older than the victim, incest with a child, and sexual battery. Detectives said the boy was 15 when it happened.

Prosecutors say they have phone recordings between Stowers-Moore and her relatives that captured her confession. She allegedly claimed sex with the teen was the only way to remove a sexual demon from him – and to protect others he might try to hurt.

But now, her story has changed.

“Now she says it was rape. But prior to this point, it has been a consensual sexual act that she did as some kind of religious sacrifice to save her other innocent people,” explained Durham District Attorney Tracey Cline.

Cline said prior to her arrest, Stowers-Moore was employed as a teacher’s assistant with Durham Public Schools.

Read the full article here.

As with any other story of guilt/innocence, we’ll have to wait until all the facts of the case have been introduced. But if all the accusations turn out to be true, I think I may have to retire myself as a blogger. Nothing in the universe can top this. Why bother writing anymore?

- ACL

People have been asking me what I think about the latest sex scandal rocking the black church involving megachurch pastor Bishop Eddie Long and four men accusing him of sexual coercion. My thoughts are best summed up in response I left to a friends’ Facebook status:

I say this at the risk of getting serious egg in my face should the accusers wind up being full of ish, but I was pretty compelled by this young brother’s [Jamal Parris, one of Long's accusers] story. Forget Long’s claim: if there was EVER a “David” in this story, it would be a virtually unknown person making claims against one of the most prominent religious figures in the country. If anybody has odds stacked against them, it’s these four cats.

I watched the video. I see nothing but truth in this dude’s eyes. But still, people can deceive us (lest we forget the recent story of that crazy chick who got a hoard of attention/sympathy by making up some BS story about a black woman throwing acid in her face). So leaving out the possibility that these four dudes are making stuff up is farcical. But whether or not Fast Eddie is guilty of THIS incident in particular, I still believe that he reigns as the pimp of all pimps. Evidence of his pimpery has been especially underscored by how a legion of people are glomming on to his every word without even asking the most basic of questions. But even outside of this scandal, he pimps his congregation and his “ministry” every single week. That kind of pimpery is fueled by an uninformed and brainwashed congregation; a congregation led to believe that questioning/being critical of a pastor is wrong. They put man ahead of God. Stories like this are usually the outcome.

Though this post appears to be a stinging indictment of Pastor Long as a sexual predatory, it’s not. I’m sincerely trying to reserve my thoughts of guilt and innocence in this particular case until a verdict has been rendered by a jury or a settlement has been made (innocent, until proven guilty right?). But I DO know for sure that pimpery exists. For the longest time, I was a member of pimped out church. I see this in action every Sunday. This isn’t something just made up out of thin air…even if the sexual accusations against Long may be.

Pray for our leaders. Support them. But never miss out on an opportunity to put their feet to fire should they get out of pocket with the Word. It won’t just be them held accountable.

- ACL

The world – as I know it – has lost its mind. Over half the country voted for George W. Bush…twice. Tyler Perry plays and movies continue to generate a fortune. Alvin Greene is legitimately a Democratic candidate for Senate. And now, 50 Tyson has a documentary. Seriously, he does. Seriously. He does.

For those of you somehow unfamiliar with Mr. 50 Tyson, he first got his fame from being a YouTube sensation; despite his best efforts:

Exhibit A (over 2.7 million hits):

Exhibit B (over 1.6 million hits):

I guess I can’t hate on the dude’s…uh…success [???]. He’s certainly getting a lot of attention in the hip hop community, not saying much. But I still think there’s something fundamentally wrong with egging on people’s silliness, when we (and they) should know better. A few pretty obvious examples immediately come to mind…

T-Baby:

William Hung (in his defense, though, at least he sounds better than Ricky Martin):

And of course, Sarah Palin:

Yet, their fame grows by the day. This further emphasizes my original thesis: this world has lost its damn mind.

- ACL

I admit that I haven’t been following primary electoral politics as much lately as I have in the past. Mostly, I’ve been pretty busy with life to pay much attention. But I also think I’m partially just uninterested at this point. All I know is that Sarah Palin – despite how I may feel about her - has been flexing her true political muscle all over the country, Democrats in South Carolina have lost their collective minds, and the Tea Party evidently tends to support anti-masturbaters.

But one story that did catch my full attention was the surprising unsurprising news that Charlie Rangel, former Chairman of the House Ways and Means Committee, won the Democratic primary in his district despite the mounting ethics charges currently against him. Included in the charges, Rangel has been accused of: seeking money for a New York college center named after him using House stationary; using false reports to Congress to hide at least $600,000 in assets, using a rent-subsidized apartment for a campaign office; and failing to pay taxes on rental income from a beach villa in the Dominican Republic. This isn’t exactly the same as getting a little nooky from a call girl

This is another shining example of how voters fail to look beyond anything other than political affiliation, race, longevity, or any number of cursory things in choosing their leaders. While the spotlight of this particular post is on Rangel, this voting phenomenon is nothing new, and certainly not unique to him. Voters – either uninformed or indifferent – will support candidates who look like them, “relate” to them, and talk like them; but not necessarily those who will actually work in their best interest. Here we have one of the most powerful men in Congress using his status and position to line his own pockets. Of course, his are all “alleged” charges, but that’s simply another way of saying “he’s innocent until we’ve had a chance to dust the money for his fingerprints.”

Stories like this make me less and less confident in our political system, its agents, and the electorate who puts these people in their positions. But I suppose that as long as the American voter continuously drums up superficial reasons to keep corrupt politicians in power, we deserve to be exploited. We feed into the culture of corruption. The fruits it bears is of our own doing.

- ACL

Every few years or so, something happens that is so shocking that you feel like the world has stopped. You’re able to recall where you were, what you were doing, and just about every other sight, sound, and smell associated with the event. For me, those moments were – most recently – Obama’s nomination acceptance, the reading of the OJ Simpson verdict, and – of course – 9/11. For one, it’s my dad’s birthday so it’s not like I could ever forget it. But it was also the time that the country was forever changed.

Close to ten years to the date, I can still remember exactly what I doing when the country was under attack. I was passing through the University Center on campus, headed to class. I was talking to my dad on the phone; wishing him a happy birthday (I can’t stress enough how weird it is to celebrate something as joyous as a birthday on the same day as one of our country’s great tragedies). No sooner than I could finish my convo with him, I saw coverage of the first plane crash on one of the televisions. I remember thinking to myself that the pilot must’ve fallen asleep or was under the influence for hitting a building as large as the WTC. That was bad enough. My stomach dropped thinking about the people on the plane experiencing this. But I also imagined the sheer horror that must’ve been felt by the people in the first tower as they watched a airplane flying directly at them. Somebody was in that building preparing for a meeting. Taking orders to make a coffee run. Having a chat by the water cooler. Replying to an email. Some of the things we do at our jobs everyday. But, for them, all of that was interrupted by fear, chaos, and death. My thoughts were quickly interrupted as I saw – in living color – another plane crashing into the second building. Our fears were confirmed when reports were coming in from CNN that the Pentagon was also hit. Everything became even more real at that moment. At that moment, I think we all knew what was going on.

I remember looking around seeing other students standing around in complete shock. The gravity of the situation was now clear. We were under attack. I remember watching students tearfully embracing each other while trying to deal with their clear shock. What came next was something I never would’ve expected; nor will I ever forget: many of the forty or so students who gather around the television joined hands and prayed. Some prayed aloud; while others were silent. Some cried, others buried their heads. After being in the group for a few more minutes, I left for class. My prof apparently beat me to the punch and arrived to class early enough to leave a sign indicating that class was cancelled. So from there, I sped home to watch coverage of the event.

9/11 was memorable to me not only because of the magnitude of the attacks. But it also showed how tragedy has a unifying effect. Similar to how sporting events have the uncanny ability to bring different types of people together, watching the events of 9/11 unfold brought people of all races, classes, and backgrounds together to share in the nation’s horror and pain. In the briefest of moments, we were all on one accord.

That was nine years ago.

Today – almost a full decade since that day – the world has changed in many ways. However, in many ways, things haven’t change a bit. Many of us carry on with our lives as if 9/11 never happened. Sure, security at airports is pain in the neck (in some cases, a very intrusive pain in the neck). Not to mention the fact that our country has experienced two wars since then. But for the most part,  not a whole lot has changed for the vast majority of us…I suspect. The bigotry, intolerance, and self-centeredness we had on Sept. 10, 2001 is still very much alive and well…arguably, to a much greater extent now than ever before.

It’s for that reason that every now and then, we need a jolt to remind of us of our recent history. As we sift through the constant stream of 9/11 commericalization and politicization, it’s important for us not to lose perspective on what REALLY happened on that day. We witnessed thousands of people – whose only crimes were to travel or go to work – wiped out in a matter of minutes by fanatical zealots. Everything else is window dressing.

Our attention must stay fixed on the fathers, mothers, children, aunts, uncles, grandparents, girl friends and boyfriends who senselessly lost their lives; the brave people who put themselves in harm’s way in rescue and rebuilding efforts; the men and women in uniform protecting this nation; and the faceless victims all around the world. At a time where unity should be at its highest, it’s seemingly the complete opposite.

It’s my prayer that we won’t need another 9/11 to remind us of how we should be as humans. I also pray that those we should be honoring didn’t lose their lives in vain. Time will tell us a little something about what lessons we learned from 9/11.

- ACL